Whipandcane8

I am an experienced giver of cp, accurate, precise, subtle and attentive.

Real manly pain, but sensual, no roughness. Prefer lengthy progressively build up play, leading to a trans like state of extasie, but can also start full strength from cold ( judicial style ) on request. Hard implements like slippers, wooden paddles, brushes carpet beaters etc, are a turn off, I am into real things like whips, canes, switches, riding crops, tawes, belts, and straps .

Being naturally dominant , I can go into strict disciplining and submitting if so desired, can go into role play only if it develops spontaneously and refers to some reality , I'm definitely not the actor in a preconceived play, I write the senario myself , otherwise I am into equal relation between adult men who respect each other and enjoy erotic pain with dignity.

I can also be the receiver, depending on the chemistry, can endure quite a lot of pain if built up progressively with skill and precision, but I am not submissive.

Further options : tt , restrains , cbt , oral , caressing , water sports and more, whatever inspiration brings along as long it is safe, sane and within the limits of mutually agreed terms.

no permanent marks, not into ff, anal, scat, obsessional fetish trips or cybersex .

I'm not conventional, rather excentric, not into urban gay bdsm-leather scene ( although I might sporadically pop up at some event ) rather an outdoor type who loves wild nature, adventurous, inventive, educated and open minded , to the point, looking for masculine guys who can endure or dish out quite a bit or somebody into switching.

Not looking for a lover but loyal to friendship.